FamilyLife Today Are You Unselfish? Add to Favorites You must be Logged In to save favorites. Close Added to Favorites. Removed from Favorites. April 16, 2018 About Recent Popular Topics Series Scripture Languages Store Listen Are You Unselfish? Feedback Let us know what you think of this program! Name Email Comments Submit No Thanks Downloads Share Are you raising your children to be mirrors or windows? Manners of the Heart founder and author Jill Rigby explains how emphasizing self-esteem over service encourages a child's natural selfishness.