Read Genesis 33:1-20.

When a person surrenders to God, they are changed on the inside. They are freed from their striving, and they can rest in the goodness of God. As a result, they do not look at the world in the same way again. But this inward change cannot stay on the inside; it must overflow into every relationship.

We see this happen in the life of Jacob. When God appeared to Jacob as he camped on the bank of the Jabbok River, the pair had wrestled till daybreak. In that experience, Jacob surrendered to the Lord, and God changed the patriarch’s name from Jacob to Israel. God touched him, and he was never the same again.

The next day, Jacob finally met Esau. Although Jacob was a very different man from the schemer who had left home twenty years earlier, he still needed to clean up some past business. It didn’t matter how much time had passed; Jacob knew he had acted deceitfully and had cheated Esau. So he recognized the wrong he had committed. He confessed it. He repented of it. And then he insisted on making restitution. As he approached Esau on the road, he bowed down seven times and insisted on calling his brother “My Lord Esau” as a sign of respect.

Now that Jacob had been conquered by God, he had a renewed strength to go and face his painful past. You see, when God touches your heart, when He forgives all your sins, when He blesses you with salvation, when He ministers to you by His grace and exercises mercy toward you, then you have no choice but to exercise mercy toward others. You must be ready to right the wrongs you have committed, even if they happened twenty years ago.

Friends, I realize that the thought of correcting past wrongs can put dread in your heart. Facing past sins can give you a horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach. But there is good news: If you do it in the name of Jesus, for the sake of Jesus, and in the power of Jesus, you will receive the strength to do what is right. When you purpose in your heart to right the wrong, God will go ahead of you, God will prepare the way for you, and God will change the heart of the other person. God will do things that will absolutely surprise you.

Prayer: Jesus, it is so hard to face the shames of my past. Give me a deep sense of Your love so that I can approach those I have hurt with humility and not feel crushed. Help me to witness to the power of Your Spirit to restore and transform. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.

“He himself went on ahead and bowed down to the ground seven times as he approached his brother” (Genesis 33:3).

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About The Author

Dr. Michael Youssef, Ph.D.

Even before he was born, it is clear that God had a vision for Michael Youssef. His mother was in poor health when she became pregnant with Michael, and because his life was in danger at the time of birth, the doctor recommended terminating the pregnancy. An abortion was scheduled. But God intervened and sent the family pastor to reassure them that God was involved in this pregnancy. He told them not to be afraid and that the child would be "born to serve the Lord." Michael's parents accepted the pastor's message as a message from God and obeyed. His mother gave birth, and lived to see him give his life to the Lord at the age of sixteen.


Believing that God had called him out of Egypt, Michael sought an exit visa in a time in which no university student was allowed to have a passport or leave the country. God intervened again, and miraculously he managed to acquire a visa. He immigrated to Australia, where he studied at Moore Theological College in Sydney, was ordained as a pastor, and met Elizabeth who became his wife.


The Youssefs came to America in 1977, and in 1978 Michael received a master's degree in theology at Fuller Theological Seminary in California. Then he earned a doctorate in social anthropology at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. Michael served nearly ten years in the Haggai Institute, traveling around the world more than 32 times, teaching courses in evangelism and leadership. He rose to the position of Managing Director at the age of 31 years. The family settled in Atlanta, and in 1984, Michael became a citizen of the United States, making his dream of many years come true.


He founded The Church of The Apostles in 1987 with fewer than 40 adults with the mission of "Equipping the Saints and Searching for the Lost". The church has since grown to be a congregation of over 3,000 people today. This church has driven the international ministry of Leading the Way. While it is heard by millions at home and abroad, behind every message preached through radio waves, is the heart of a pastor, willing to nurture and care for these people. Clearly God has uniquely equipped Dr. Youssef to speak to a global audience. The path he has taken has given him an understanding and firm grasp of the Scriptures that transcend cultures. He preaches, teaches and calls with a sincere, based on the authority of the inerrant, inspired Word of God. With his personal knowledge of the Holy Land, its history and culture, Dr. Michael Youssef transmits life to listeners all over the world.



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