“The Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things.” 
John 14:26 

Prayer is like the weather: Everybody talks about it, but nobody does anything about it. At least not often, when it comes to prayer. If there’s any area where most of us are weak in our spiritual lives, it’s prayer. It’s not that we don’t put a high value on it. It’s not that we don’t think we should pray. The problem is that we simply don’t pray. If you struggle with prayer, welcome to the family. One reason we struggle is that we don’t know how to pray. Prayer isn’t natural to us, because our natural state is to run from God’s presence, not come before Him. Our natural state is to pursue our own path but prayer helps to align us with God’s path. 

Prayer is like the weather: Everybody talks about it, but nobody does anything about it.

Some of us have never learned how to pray. Others haven’t prayed enough to be comfortable with it. Still others don’t understand enough of God’s Word to pray biblically and accurately. 

Whatever the case, you and I don’t have any excuse not to pray. We may have good reasons for not praying well, but we don’t have any excuse for not praying at all. 

Paul recognizes our prayer dilemma, and he has some good news. When you don’t know how to pray, when you don’t know what to say or how to say it, you have a divine Interpreter called the Holy Spirit who can clarify, correct and focus your prayer so that by the time it leaves you and gets to heaven, it’s aligned with God’s kingdom and His agenda in the most appropriate way. 

Learning to pray is like learning a foreign language. 

You don’t have to worry that you didn’t get that prayer just right. By the time the Holy Spirit took your prayer and carried it into the heavenly throne room, the prayer is powerful, because the Spirit’s job is to intercede for us. His job is to interpret our prayers and carry them to the Father. Learning to pray is like learning a foreign language. 

The best way to learn it is to hang out in an environment where the language is spoken. So if you want to learn to pray, you need to spend time in an environment where prayer is spoken. You need to pray and abide in Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit will help you as you do these things. He knows the powerful prayer language of the heavenly kingdom realm.

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About The Author

Dr. Tony Evans

Dr. Tony Evans is one of the country’s most respected leaders in evangelical circles. As a pastor, teacher, author and speaker, he serves the body of Christ through his unique ability to communicate complex theological truths through simple, yet profound, illustrations. While addressing the practical issues of today, Dr. Evans is known as a relevant expositor. New and veteran pastors alike regard him as a pastor of pastors and a father in the faith.


At the heart of this vision is the use of church and school partnerships to effect spiritual and social change in communities. Dr. Evans’ church and school outreach philosophy has been attributed as a catalyst for former President George W. Bush’s Faith Based Initiative, which was his first formal act of office. Dr. Evans seeks to train churches, schools and volunteers in this philosophy, as well as in the functional practicalities, through the National Church Adopt-A-School Initiative which is a ministry underneath the umbrella of The Urban Alternative.


Dr. Evans serves as president of The Urban Alternative, a national ministry that seeks to restore hope and transform lives through the proclamation and the application of the Word of God. His daily radio broadcast, The Alternative with Dr. Tony Evans, can be heard on more than 850 radio outlets throughout the United States and in more than 80 countries.


Dr. Evans has written numerous books and booklets including his legacy work, Oneness Embraced, as well as his vision work, The Kingdom Agenda. Some of his most recent books includes, Kingdom Man, A Moment For Your Soul, Marriage Matters, and Victory in Spiritual Warfare.



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